Grey Sex: Heterosexuality and Everyday Domination
English | 2025 | ISBN: 150955887X | 146 Pages | EPUB | 0.6 MB
English | 2025 | ISBN: 150955887X | 146 Pages | EPUB | 0.6 MB
Many people have sexual experiences that fall into a grey area between assault and “normal” sex. Looking at heterosexuality and everyday domination, this book shows that, in doing so, we are neither simply victims nor failing to assert ourselves. We are caught in relations of gendered power that may be hard to name or that may, in a world filled with violence, not seem worth mentioning. Tempting as it is to blame individuals for grey sexual experiences, Kogl argues that we can’t make sense of the power at work if we remain stuck in self-blame or point the finger at perpetrators. The personal is still political: the most intimate activities are both shaped by and shapers of unjust sexual hierarchies.