12 Steps to Super Confidence with Women
Modernmalelifestyle | ISBN: N/a | 2008 | MP3 | 49 Mb
What's wrong with Nice Guys? The biggest problem is that most Nice Guys are very insecure. They are so anxious to be liked and loved that they do things for women to gain acceptance and attention.
Nice Guys exude insecurity: a big target for the loser women of the world. There are women out there who are "users" - just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on Nice Guys, stroke their egos, take them for a ride, and move on. It's no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that gets attracted to them are abusive and negative.
Self-confident, caring, decent, hot women find Nice Guys to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.
Nice Guys go way overboard. They think they know about romance, but their timing is all wrong. They either come-on too strong, too hard and too fast, or they are so shy and unassertive, that they hang around pretending to be "friends," in the hope that somehow, someway, they will get the courage up to ask a woman out for a "date" but end up perpetually waiting in the wings as bolder, more self-confident men get the woman.
Nice Guys are always asking the wrong questions, and looking for approval - a proven ticket to disaster.
Nice Guys want, need and expect, but will never come out and say it. They fear that any kind of conflict might spell the end of the relationship. Instead of compromising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in." When Nice Guys feel a woman doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her," as if this somehow elevates them to the status of martyrs. A woman doesn't want a martyr, or a child. She wants an equal, caring, adult partner.